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The Jack of Clubs Club

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Parent/Child Relationship Report for for McKAYLA and JANE MARIE

All about McKAYLA`s Birth Card

  

The FIVE  of Clubs Person "The Mentally and Emotionally Restless Card"

Our Birth Card is our most important symbol of who we are in this lifetime. It is the card that we most identify with, and through which we have the greatest gifts to share with those around us. It is also called our Sun Card and our Soul Card.

FIVE  of Clubs means changes and restlessness of the mind and we find these people to have a lot of curiosity and restlessness in their lives. The FIVE  of Hearts displacement tells us that they also have many changes in their romantic life as well and for this reason they are not usually well suited for marriage. These people are basically adventurous and want to do some exploring and research. For this same reason, anything associated with commitment will be avoided like the plague. This can make them nomadic and changeable to the extreme in some cases. Though they are so changeable, actual moves to new homes or lifestyles usually entail many responsibilities and challenges.


The ACE  of Spades in Venus speaks of secret love affairs and indecision about which to choose. The Seven of Diamonds in Jupiter is a millionaire's card and many of them have lots of money, though they often spend it or lose it as fast as they get it. Speculation & gambling should be avoided. They are wonderful in sales and promotion because they can relate to so many people on their own level.


Their natural curiosity brings them much knowledge, but they often do not apply it or stick to one train of thought. This tends to make them skeptics, not even getting satisfaction from their own self-created belief stuctures. An interest in spiritual studies brings more satisfaction in their later years and provides answers that bring more peace into their lives. A spiritual teacher is helpful in this regard.

Some of the FIVE  of Clubs Issues Concerning Relationships

Depending upon the individual, being a FIVE  of Clubs can be a blessing or a curse in the realm of relationships. On the high side they are progressive and can relate to anyone on their level. This makes them well-liked and sociable. On the other hand, the fear of commitment can be so great that they attract the most unusual situations and they may never have the peace of a deep connection. There will be emotional losses in their life regardless, but their attitudes and values tell the real story.

Because of their avoidance of commitment and their ACE  of Spades in Venus, they are often attracted to married people or have secret affairs. They do like to keep their private lives to themselves at any rate. The single life is the way for most of them but there are those exceptional ones that settle down and make great contributions in love and work.

All about McKAYLA`s Planetary Ruling (Ego) Card

  
All about McKAYLA`s Planetary Ruling Card
TEN   of Spades as Your Ego Card

The Planetary Ruling Card acts like a second Birth Card to give you a new slant on your personality and character traits. It is very important in terms of your personal relationships since it represents a part of you that you identify with strongly.

This ruling card tends to make you a person who goes to extremes at times. When you get into something, you really get into it. You can be a workaholic and probably feel somewhat burdened by your work a lot of the time. You also have some desires for a settled and satisfying family life that may seem to compete with your ambitions at work. You do have the ability to take on enormous amounts of work and get it done and you can harness energy that few others could in the same situation. You desire to be known for something, for something you have done or created, and you will work like crazy until you achieve it. There are probably uncertainties surrounding your intimate relationships which could add to your inner conflict between love and work.

All about JANE MARIE`s Birth Card

The JACK of Clubs Person "The Mentally Creative Card"

Creative, dishonest, or a mixture of both? As we can imagine, those who are the most creative can also be the most dishonest and vice versa. Here is a card of mental and financial creativity and these people are no lazy bones. Their brilliant minds are far ahead of the common person and society. They are the people of the Aquarian Age, being neither entirely male nor female. They are progressive and on the cutting edge of the evolution of our society and world.

As members of the royal family they dislike pettiness and tend to be somewhat impatient with the failings of others. They need respect and a position that allows their brilliant minds free reign to create and explore. They are never at a loss for ideas, some of which will bring them huge financial returns. On the negative side, the JACK  of Clubs can be irresponsible and in some cases, dishonest. They can see things from so many levels that nothing is really 'wrong' - it is just another way of looking at things. And they can make up a story so fast that they can explain away practically anything. They don't get away with much in that regard though. Saturn's hand always reminds them of the boundaries that keep them balanced and fair. The trouble comes when they start believing their own stories, departing from reality a little too far and creating a lot of hardship before getting back on course.

They are essentially good and giving people. Even though they are argumentative at times, they are loving and friendly to all they meet.

Some of the Jack of Clubs Issues Concerning Relationships

Such a strong and fixed mental approach to life can have its share of challenges for the JACK  of Clubs. Mental approaches don't always work in the realms of love. However, these people do not have particularly bad karma in this area. They need someone who is their friend first, and who will allow them some freedom to do and be themselves. If they have this, they are faithful and devoted. The men are excellent lovers and the women excellent companions.

They often have to contend with the ill health of a loved one, or their own health problems that are rooted in some emotional conflict. In most cases their health issues are related to some emotional cause, whether it be family or lover related.

All about JANE MARIE`s Planetary Ruling (Ego) Card


All about JANE MARIE`s Planetary Ruling Card
SEVEN   of Spades as Your Ego Card

The Planetary Ruling Card acts like a second Birth Card to give you a new slant on your personality and character traits. It is very important in terms of your personal relationships since it represents a part of you that you identify with strongly.

This ruling card adds strength to your personality and gives you a certain amount of good fortune, especially in the areas of home and family. You may feel that you have a blessed marriage or relationship, or that many good things have come from your parents. Health concerns may play a major role in your life and you may be accident-prone. The SEVEN   of Spades encourages us to have faith in life, in spite of whatever circumstances we may find ourselves in. In this regard, you may find yourself tested many times. You are probably attracted to those of intelligence and wit and with a bit of luck, you could marry one of them. Financial security is something that will only come through hard work.



All about the Card Connections you share

This report uses the most advanced techniques available to give some real insight into the inner workings of your relationship. Using the ancient system, now known as the Book of Destiny, it determines the energy 'connections' that reflect exactly how the two of you interact. These connections are essentially described as planetary energies, for example Mars or Venus. Some  connections are harmonious, while others create certain kinds of friction or stress between you. All of the connections between you serve an important purpose and contribute to the experience that you share. Keep in mind that most connections have a higher expression and a lower one. The affirmations given for each connection indicate how to access the highest expression of  each one.

The connections are listed in the order of their importance. The first connection is the most important and the second is the next important, etc. But even the last connection between you probably manifests itself in your experience together. Therefore, regard all of them as having some important information for you.

You may have only a few connections, two or three, or you may have as many as fourteen. Each couple has a unique number and kinds of connections - as unique as the love and feelings they share for each other.

Look to see if you have more than one kind of connection between you. For example, you may have a total of two or three Mars connections between you. When this is the case, you should study these connections carefully, realizing that this probably indicates some of the most important reasons that you are together and the issues that you most often face together.

Finally, there are no bad connections. If we are attracted to someone so much that we spend time with them, there are important reasons for this. The descriptions of the connections in this report can help you understand why you have made the choice to be together, which can in turn help each of you to understand your individual personalities and needs better. Of course, some connections indicate stress and challenge, but this is because we often use relationships as the vehicle through which we resolve our own inner conflicts. If the love is there, there are many good things for each of you to gain from being together.

The First Connection Between You

JANE MARIE is the Uranus Card to McKayla, Location: Spiritual Spread

 

       

McKAYLA                              JANE MARIE

This is one of the past-life connections that tells us that JANE MARIE and McKAYLA have already been together before. In fact, in that previous lifetime, they developed a true friendship and mutual respect for each other  that has carried over into this lifetime. Now, they can enjoy those qualities and use that to build an even stronger relationship. However, both should know the implications of this connection, which tells us that it is not ideally suited for all couples. JANE MARIE and McKAYLA have a great possibility here, the potential to have a true relationship based on the ideals of the New Age of Aquarius.

McKAYLA will be the one who is most affected by JANE MARIE's behavior and this powerful connection. At times she may seem to act in such  an unexpected manner that McKAYLA is taken off balance by her. If McKAYLA places big demands or expectations upon her, JANE MARIE will seem to be even more uncontrollable and unpredictable, which may engender even more uncertainty for McKAYLA. This is because McKAYLA is the one who is receiving the Uranian energies the most, unless other connections point out that JANE MARIE is also receiving some. In any case, the call here is for McKAYLA to drop her expectations and learn to appreciate the time and things that she does share with JANE MARIE, instead of focusing on the parts that she is not getting the way she wants. This can be an easy lesson or a hard one, it depends mostly on McKAYLA and her attitudes. We might say it is a matter of having both faith, that McKAYLA will get her needs met and her having appreciation for all that she does have in the context of this  relationship.

However, this connection tells us that McKAYLA has already learned these lessons in the prior lifetime. She probably will not have such a hard time of it. Most of the relationships with this connection are good friendships. Both partners usually have separate careers or lives, but allow each other the space to do as they please without placing big demands upon each other. For this reason, it may not be the best connection for business partners, who often demand a high level of interaction on a daily basis. Uranus tends to break  down structures instead of supporting them. So, this works great as friends or associates but not so good in highly structured environments of any kind.

JANE MARIE and McKAYLA can truly enjoy the time they spend together but do not require that this time be scheduled into their lives, as if there wasn't going to be enough of it. They can be friends or associates that truly allow each other the freedom to either be there or not. It would be well  for both JANE MARIE and McKAYLA to model themselves after these ideal characteristics, which is the Uranus connection in its highest expression.

The Uranus connection often provides a psychic link between people. They just seem to know what each other is thinking or doing. Sometimes they can transmit thoughts to each other and they 'click' in unusual ways that other people would find hard to understand. It is really a wonderful thing when a Uranus relationship is working well. Both people are relaxed and unconcerned as to whether or not they will be together again. They both are aware of their mutual friendship and that is enough. Whatever time they do spend together is like the icing on the cake, and another chapter (and adventure) in the book of their friendship.

Affirmation for JANE MARIE: I realize the powerful effect I have on McKAYLA. Though I will never allow her to control me or dictate my actions, I will express my appreciation to her so that she knows how I feel.

Affirmation for McKAYLA: I allow JANE MARIE to be completely free to be herself. In this way, I am creating a relationship based upon true friendship and unconditional love.

The Second Connection Between You

McKAYLA is the Jupiter Card to JANE MARIE Location: Spiritual Spread

        

McKAYLA                              JANE MARIE

Connections beyond the first decrease in strength and significance. Therefore, the second will be the next in importance, the third connection next, etc. But each new connection is slightly less significant than the one before it. Keep this in mind as you read their meanings.

This is one of the past-life or 'earned' connections, and it happens to be one of the better ones in terms of what it brings into the lives of McKAYLA and JANE MARIE. This particular connection indicates that McKAYLA and JANE MARIE shared a past life where they held the same spiritual or philosophical views. There is a strong possibility that during that particular lifetime, these philosophies and beliefs were a major theme in their life. Perhaps they were members of a religious group, or somehow entered into a life of spiritual disciplines and study. This lifetime had a powerful and enlightening influence upon both of them, revealing many truths about life and the laws of the universe that they still draw upon for guidance and direction.

Now that they have met each other again, McKAYLA and JANE MARIE are reminded of the connection they once had. By being together, many positive results are manifesting in their lives. McKAYLA enjoys being the giver in this relationship and she will give everything that she can to JANE MARIE as a natural expression of her feelings for her. She will provide guidance and inspiration when it is needed and will act as a reminder of the high level of truth and integrity that they once shared.

This connection is about truth and integrity, but it is also about giving, prosperity and abundance. JANE MARIE is the one who receives most of  these benefits because she is on the receiving end of this connection. McKAYLA also benefits because giving is in reality another form of  receiving. McKAYLA and JANE MARIE have a natural inclination to give to each other and if this giving and receiving is allowed to grow and be appreciated, it can grow into one of the most important cornerstones of their relationship. It has the potential to fulfill many of their dreams and desires by attracting opportunities, good relationships and things into their lives.

In particular it is up to JANE MARIE to stimulate this potential by practicing the art of appreciation for the many good things she shares with McKAYLA. Appreciation is one of the magical keys to prosperity, one that could unlock the door to her most cherished desires. When the natural giving that McKAYLA does is complimented by JANE MARIE's felt and expressed appreciation, it generates a potent energy that attracts many good things into their lives.

Many people who have this connection end up quite well off financially and they seem to be 'lucky' by most standards. It is a great connection for business partners. This so-called luck is not really by chance though. It is a natural outcome of the right frame of mind. With such a fortunate connection between them, McKAYLA and JANE MARIE have a lot going in the right direction for a happy and prosperous future. Even if it is not intentionally cultivated, this connection will definitely bring many good things into their lives.

Affirmation for McKAYLA: I am glad to be a blessing in JANE MARIE's life and hope that I can give her all that I have to give. I allow myself to express  my generosity in its fullest with no expectation that JANE MARIE must act in any particular way as payment for my giving. My giving is complete in and of itself.

Affirmation for JANE MARIE: I am grateful for the presence of McKAYLA  in my life. I accept all the good things that she brings into my life and respond with appreciation and gratitude. In this way I multiply my blessings and transform our relationship into a powerful force for prosperity, peace and abundance.

The Third Connection Between You

JANE MARIE is the Jupiter Card to McKAYLA Location: Spiritual Spread

       

McKAYLA                              JANE MARIE

This is one of the past-life or 'earned' connections, and it happens to be one of the better ones in terms of what it brings into the lives of JANE MARIE and McKAYLA. This particular connection indicates that JANE MARIE and McKAYLA shared a past life where they held the same spiritual or philosophical views. There is a strong possibility that during that particular lifetime, these philosophies and beliefs were a major theme in their life. Perhaps they were members of a religious group, or somehow entered into a life of spiritual disciplines and study. This lifetime had a powerful and enlightening influence upon both of them, revealing many truths about life and the laws of the universe that they still draw upon for guidance and direction.

Now that they have met each other again, JANE MARIE and McKAYLA are reminded of the connection they once had. By being together, many positive results are manifesting in their lives. JANE MARIE enjoys being the giver in this relationship and she will give everything that she can to McKAYLA as a natural expression of her feelings for her. She will provide guidance and inspiration when it is needed and will act as a reminder of the high level of truth and integrity that they once shared.

This connection is about truth and integrity, but it is also about giving, prosperity and abundance. McKAYLA is the one who receives most of these benefits because she is on the receiving end of this connection. JANE MARIE also benefits because giving is in reality another form of receiving. JANE MARIE and McKAYLA have a natural inclination to give to each other and if this giving and receiving is allowed to grow and be appreciated, it can grow into one of the most important cornerstones of their relationship. It has the potential to fulfill many of their dreams and desires by attracting opportunities, good relationships and things into their lives.

In particular it is up to McKAYLA to stimulate this potential by practicing the art of appreciation for the many good things she shares with JANE MARIE. Appreciation is one of the magical keys to prosperity, one that could unlock the door to her most cherished desires. When the natural giving that JANE MARIE does is complimented by McKAYLA's felt and expressed appreciation, it generates a potent energy that attracts many good things into their lives.

Many people who have this connection end up quite well off financially and they seem to be 'lucky' by most standards. It is a great connection for business partners. This so-called luck is not really by chance though. It is a natural outcome of the right frame of mind. With such a fortunate connection between them, JANE MARIE and McKAYLA have a lot going in the right direction for a happy and prosperous future. Even if it is not intentionally cultivated, this connection will definitely bring many good things into their lives.

Affirmation for JANE MARIE: I am glad to be a blessing in McKAYLA's life and hope that I can give her all that I have to give. I allow myself to express  my generosity in its fullest with no expectation that McKAYLA must act in any particular way as payment for my giving. My giving is complete in and of itself.

Affirmation for McKAYLA: I am grateful for the presence of JANE MARIE  in my life. I accept all the good things that she brings into my life and respond with appreciation and gratitude. In this way I multiply my blessings and transform our relationship into a powerful force for prosperity, peace and abundance.

 

The Fourth Connection Between You

McKAYLA is the Saturn Card to JANE MARIE Location: Life Spread

 

      

McKAYLA                              JANE MARIE

Saturn has traditionally been known as the planet of hardship, coldness and difficulties of all kinds. And in fact there are some Saturn relationships in which these qualities predominate. However, there are many Saturn relationships that have other qualities, and in these we see the more positive aspects of Saturn's influence. We cannot predict exactly how this relationship between McKAYLA and JANE MARIE will be affected by this connection because that will depend upon how consciously they choose to apply the energy of this connection. It can be very constructive or it can be difficult and depressing. So, here we will define some of the qualities more specifically so that it can be understood fully.

In this relationship JANE MARIE has somehow chosen McKAYLA to be her teacher. Though this may not have been a completely conscious choice, it is so just the same. McKAYLA, being JANE MARIE's Saturn Card, will experience a natural inclination to help JANE MARIE by making suggestions for improving her life, career, or situation. Just having McKAYLA in her life  is a reminder to JANE MARIE of things she needs to do in order to make her life better than it is. A Saturn person teaches us how to be more responsible, grown-up, practical, disciplined, conscientious and fair. They will help us to become more aware of how our words and actions affect those around us. These lessons can result in JANE MARIE becoming more successful in her work, especially if she has strong career aspirations or goals of things she wants to attain. On some level, McKAYLA is a father figure to her and indeed she may remind JANE MARIE of her father in many ways.

Taken with a positive attitude, JANE MARIE may make great progress  in her life by the presence of McKAYLA. The closer this connection is to being the first connection in this relationship, the more important this relationship is for JANE MARIE in terms of what she needs to learn. The best possible attitude would be where JANE MARIE acknowledges McKAYLA as her teacher or guide. Not that she needs to give up her own thoughts or beliefs to McKAYLA, but just that there are probably things that she can learn from her.

In extreme cases a person that is Saturn to us can be abusive. However, this would only happen to a person who inwardly dislikes who they are so much that they secretly desire to be abused. In these cases, the Saturn person will be the mirror of our own self-hate and disrespect. Indeed, in these cases, the Saturn person is abusive, verbally and otherwise. The key then, is 'When  do we stop being abused by the Saturn person?', or 'When do we start loving ourselves enough to attract someone more loving and considerate?' Our relationships are always a key to find out how we treat ourselves. We invariably choose someone who mirrors the way we feel about our own self. JANE MARIE would do well to reflect on this if she finds McKAYLA exhibiting any of the abusive forms of this Saturn energy.

The most positive Saturn relationships are those that help the partner achieve their dreams by aligning them with the hows and how-to's of success  in the world. A Saturn partner can provide us with direction, understanding, coaching and wisdom - all of which can help us achieve our goals. The Saturn person can handle us. They can put us in our place, where other people may be unable to do so. Therefore we can develop a lot of trust and respect in them. And sometimes that is just what we need, someone to show us the boundaries and discipline us a little. If JANE MARIE is, or was, strongly attracted to McKAYLA, then this is very likely the case.

Affirmation for McKAYLA: I understand that I have the ability to see all of JANE MARIE's faults and shortcomings and share suggestions with her compassionately and with the awareness that I have a powerful effect on her.

Affirmation for JANE MARIE: I realize that I chose this relationship with McKAYLA to help me grow in important areas of my life. With that in mind, I accept her suggestions so that I may learn and make progress in becoming a successful and happy person.

The Fifth Connection Between You

JANE MARIE is the Mars Card to McKAYLA Location: Life Spread

 

       

McKAYLA                              JANE MARIE

The Mars connection is one of the strongest in terms of how much it affects each of the partners. Mars is the God of War and Anger. It actually represents pure energy, but on an aggressive, passionate level. For this reason this is a great connection for people who actually do physical things together. Working partners often have this connection and it stimulates them both to achieve more and be productive. However, the negative side of Mars should also be considered as this connection can potentially cause anger and competition and in some cases make real enemies out of the two people involved.

In this relationship McKAYLA is the one who is more affected by it. Because JANE MARIE is her Mars card, all this Mars energy is be  experienced more by her. This can translate as JANE MARIE making McKAYLA feel stimulated, aggressive, or angry and competitive. In its best form, the Mars connection will encourage the two to become active. And if they can actively pursue common goals, it can be very constructive and rewarding.

But McKAYLA must bear the greatest responsibility for the stimulation of this connection and how it is manifested between them. The trouble with anger and competition is that when we are experiencing it, we are completely convinced that the other person, in this case, JANE MARIEis the cause of our problems. Rarely are people angry and realizing that the anger is their problem. But even so, it is their problem if it is they who are angry. So, according to this connection only the way McKAYLA handles the stimulation provided by JANE MARIE will determine what goes on and how this strong Mars energy is channeled.

McKAYLA can use this information and consciously transform the often negative effects of this Mars connection into positive directions. It is not that difficult to keep a Mars relationship healthy. It just requires some awareness and thoughtfulness. JANE MARIE can actually be a catalyst to get McKAYLA out of her complacency and doing things. To give this powerful Mars energy something constructive to do, it is recommended that JANE MARIE and McKAYLA go outside and do things together, or at the very least, find something productive to do together with this energy. Friends or associates with this connection usually go walking, hiking, jogging, riding, shopping, bicycling or participate in other forms of physical exertion. All of these and others serve to exhaust the Mars energy and satisfy it. When they do these sorts of activities together, they will always notice that they feel better, both personally and about each other, afterwards.

This connection provides a lot of the spark, fire, and magic in this relationship. If JANE MARIE and McKAYLA use it with care, it can bring them much of what they want out of life. Any negative manifestations of this powerful energy can be controlled and eliminated through conscious  awareness and when this is the case, it becomes like a genie in a bottle who  can grant them all their wishes.

 Affirmation for JANE MARIE: I am aware of how much I stimulate McKAYLA and understand her feelings. With this awareness I consciously guide my actions and help us both by encouraging positive outlets for this powerful energy we share.

 Affirmation for McKAYLA: I accept JANE MARIE as a powerful stimulus in my life and choose to take responsibility for my own emotional reactions to her. With her help, I am diffusing my own anger and channeling my energy into positive directions.

   Rating       Attraction        Intensity        Compatible
      -  3 3 0
      -  5 3 -1
 
The lower the intensity the better and higher is better for attraction and compatibility 

 

 I must confess, that I joined this Parent Child Relationship five years ago and observed that they took turns being mother and father.

Left alone together for too long a stretch, I heard that their 4th Saturn and 5th Mars connections would sometimes get the best of them. When the Child is the Teacher and the Parent is the Stimulator occasional misunderstandings can occur.